Friday, September 19, 2008

School


I know my blog has been boring, and this probably won't help much.  I decided to homeschool Max and Marshall this year for a few reasons.

1.  The schools here really aren't great.  They have pretty low standards and don't really offer the opportunity for your child to excel in any subjects.

2.  The kids in the school here really aren't great.  I especially noticed the difference from 2nd to 3rd grade.  Max was being called foul names and for the little time that I spent in their classrooms, I was appauled by the language that I would hear the kids use.  With the large amount of diversity in our school combined with double-income and divorced homes, the kids today are left to themselves with nothing but time, the t.v. and the internet; forcing these kids to grow up faster and be exposed to the adult world way too early.

3.  Even though none of my kids were involved in any extra activites, like sports or music lessons, I never felt like I was able to spend any quality time with them.  As soon as they were home from school it was homework time, for 1-2 hours, play time, dinner time, then bed time.  Life was a whirlwind, we kept going and going and going with not much meaning.

4.  It seemed safter to keep Max home with his platelets still all over the board.  Who knows if and when some punk kid would think it was funny to trip him or push him down, not understanding the consequenses.  The offer was still on the table to have homebound come in twice a week (and I loved his teacher) but I didn't like the hours that we were imprisoned in our home.

So I spoke with a friend in my ward that homeschools 3 of her 4 kids (ages 9, 11, and 14) and really liked the program she was using.  It is called K12, and in Las Vegas, it is paid for by the school district through a program called Nevada Virtual Academy.  It is great!  They send you all the materials for all subjects, including art materials, reading books, teacher manuals, and they even have foreign language.  All the daily schedules are online, which is where you log attendance and assesments.  A lot of the work is even done online.  My kids really like it and so do I.  I never in a million years thought I would be one of those "homeschool moms" but it really isn't so bad.  I mostly didn't think that I would have the patience for it but I am proving myself wrong.  I has been a little tricky to find balance with the 2 of them, and splitting my attention, but we are getting there.  Life is much more laid back and I don't feel to stressed, hard to imagine how having your kids home all the time and being in charge of their education can actually make our family more relaxed, but it does.  I love the time I spend with them, mostly, and I love seeing what they are learning.  We'll see if my tune changes come January, once a baby is thrown into the mix, but I really think it will be easier for me having them around.  Only time will tell but for now I am going to enjoy it.

P.S.  I still enrolled Simon in Kindergarten.  I figured they can't really mess up a 5 year old and he needs to get out of the house and play everyday.  Even if it is for only 2 1/2 hours a day, it helps give me some time with the other boys to be more productive.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Labor Day Weekend in Paragonah, Ut

Update on Max

It has been a while since the latest update on Max, I thought I would take a few and let you all know where he is.  The last update, Max had spontaneously increased his platelets from 70 to 140 in 2 weeks.  Well, 2 weeks later, he was back down to 30! :(  The Dr. has no idea why.  I was hoping for some kind of pattern, but there really is none.  His appointment was Wednesday of last week, so we scheduled his WinRho for that Friday (one week ago).  Simon played at some friends house after school and Marshall got to have a sleep over at Kate and Zach's.  I was really optimistic about this treatment because I thought we had it figured out so that it would be the most comfortable for Max.  First is the IV, followed by Tylenol.  Benadryl (given over 30 minutes so he doesn't feel the side effects) comes next and then some Ativan, so Max can relax.  As times have proven in the past, the WinRho makes him really agitated and mean, so this is given as a preventative to that.  Following Ativan is some Zofran, or anti-nausea medicine.  He always seems to get an upset stomach and this seems to help.  After the Zofran has been in him for about 30 minutes, the nurse then comes in and pushes in the WinRho over a 5 minute period.  Well, not 5 minutes after she was done and gone, Max was asking for a bucket.  Puke, puke, puke came next, and kept coming for a good 5-10 minutes.  The only difference this time was that he was so doped up and "relaxed" that I couldn't reason with him; he was totally out of it.  He kept saying "Mom, there are 5 loogies in my mouth and I need to spit them out!"  I couldn't help but laugh as he repeated this over and over again.  We waited out the hour and left at 2:15pm, 5 hours after we arrived.  I went to pick up Simon and Max had to stop and puke in the bushes 4 or 5 more times.  The rest of the day was pretty miserable for him.  If he was up on his feet for more than 15 minutes or so, he would get nausiated again, so the rest of the day he spent in bed.  By Saturday morning, everything was great, and he was back to himself.  Definately the worse treatment yet.  Hopefully it will be a while until we have to go through this again.